5 Ways to Stay Positive in Negative Situations

#Positive thinking: We all face negative situations in our life. Someone may saysomething bad about you, or something you’ve worked hard on is rejected.
In situations like this it is difficult to keep a positive attitude. However we’re judged by our communications so staying positive is the professional way to react to adverse situations.

5 Ways to Stay Positive in Negative Situations

Your natural inclination is to release your inner Hulk and bash.This  negative reaction will make  the circumstances worse and you willend up filled with disappointment and anger.

You can beat negative situations by keeping a positive attitude. Theattitude you take when faced with a negative situation is a choice. Inthe business world keeping a positive attitude in negative circumstances is a valuable skill to learn. It will keep your professional reputation intact and show you can handle any negative situation.

5 Rules to Help You Stay Positive

The best way to overcome a negative situation is by keeping apositive attitude. It is not easy and requires discipline on your part,but you can do it. At first you may not succeed every time so considerit a training program. Eventually you will learn to control yourreactions out of habit.

Rule # 1 – Control Your Response

The golden rule of staying positive in a negative situation is tocontrol your response. Take a deep breath, count to 10, do whatever ittakes to remove yourself from the negativity. Wait until you calm downand have thought clearly about your response.

If you respond out of emotion you will only make it worse. RememberThumper’s rule. “If you can’t say anything nice, then don’t say anything at all.” This is good advice when you find yourself in a negativesituation.
Negative situations compound when they cause you stress. Learn how to deal with stress to remove the extra negativity.

Rule # 2 – Learn From Negative Situations

Look at a negative situation or event as an opportunity to learn andgrow personally. Albert Einstein said “In the middle of difficulty liesopportunity.” Don’t channel your energy into a negative reaction, butinto something positive that will make the situation better, not worse.
If you do react negatively take note of it and the circumstances that caused it. Learn from it by identifying the triggers that caused yourreaction so you can watch for them in the future. Train yourself so youcontrol the situation instead of allowing the situation to control youractions.

Rule # 3 – If You Make a Mistake, Admit it

We are human so we all make mistakes from time to time. When you doyou need to step up and admit it. One thing I told my boss a long timeago was that if I ever made a mistake he would hear it from me first. If you make a mistake that leads to a negative situation, admit to it,learn from it and move on.

Rule # 4 – Maintain a Positive View

Don’t allow your opinion of someone to become jaded by a negativesituation. Keep a positive view about a person or a situation and don’tjump to conclusions. Be proactive in dealing with adverse circumstances, not reactive. If the negativity is true see rule # 3. If not thenaffirm what you already know about yourself and your work.

When you are working under pressure it is hard to keep a positiveattitude, but for a manager often pressure is part of the job. Learning how to work under pressure will help you overcome a source of negative situations.

Rule # 5 – Accentuate The Positive.

Remember that scene in The Jungle Book where Baloo breaks into a song about staying positive?
You’ve got to accentuate the positive
Eliminate the negative
And latch on to the affirmative
Don’t mess with Mister In-Between

Words of wisdom from a dancing bear.

  • Emphasize your positive attitude by your actions and in your words.
  • Eliminate any negative thoughts generated from a negative situation. Nothing good is gained from a negative reaction.
  • Affirm the positive truths you know to be true about yourself and your work.
  • Don’t flip-flop between positive and negative. When negativity comes to you remove yourself from the situation, flip to the positive sideand stay there.

Take Away

In the middle of writing this piece I had to put this into practicewhen the power went out for 2 1/2 hours during a thunderstorm. Ratherthan get mad because I had lost my writing time, I grabbed a notebookand started writing my to-do list for work tomorrow. A negative reaction to something beyond my control would have wasted time and energy.

Life will continually present you with negative situations. Youchoose how you react to them. Rather than waste energy and yourreputation by reacting negatively, learn to turn a negative situationinto a positive. Don’t let the actions of others or circumstances turnyou to the dark side of the workforce.
Keeping a  positive attitude in a negative situation is hard, but ifyou work at it you will learn to overcome your emotional reactions. 

Doing so will enhance your professional appearance and show that evenunder negative circumstances you can maintain control and deal with anyissue in a positive way.

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